{"id":4361,"date":"2023-11-02T09:23:06","date_gmt":"2023-11-02T14:23:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/?p=4361"},"modified":"2023-11-02T09:23:06","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T14:23:06","slug":"two-15","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/2023\/11\/02\/two-15\/","title":{"rendered":"Two"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I figure I&#8217;ll knock this out during the in-between of packing and travelling.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We&#8217;re pretty much as good as we&#8217;re going to get;  deal with what comes as it comes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This really kind of fits with my approach to a lot of different things;  things happen, you deal, and move forward as best you can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><em>You can&#8217;t plan everything.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And your inability to plan everything doesn&#8217;t make you a bad person.  Yes, you should take reasonable measures, but things just happen someimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How you react to those things speaks more to you as a pest, I think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today&#8217;s prompt really pairs well with the line of thinking &#8212; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>\u00a0<strong>Are you superstitious?<\/strong><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The older I get, the less superstitious I am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t go well with many of the standard OCD behaviors.  No, nothing bad is going to happen because you didn&#8217;t check the lock on the door a certain number of times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You didn&#8217;t lock the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most probable:  Nothing happens at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A bit worse:  Someone comes in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Worse, still, they take your stuff<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Worst of at all, he\/she hurts you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But unless you live in a really bad place, the first option is the most likely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Something to discuss with my shrink next time I speak to her;  what&#8217;s her take on things like superstition?  Am I doing it wrong that it really doesn&#8217;t bother me much anymore?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(No.  I&#8217;m pretty sure she&#8217;d say that my response is the healthy one.  It&#8217;s like I&#8217;m learning or something.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, even absent the cogitative behavioral therapy techniques, I viewed most of the things people did as just foolish.  (And thinking that makes me a bad person&#8230;.ANOTHER THING I SHOULDN&#8217;T THINK!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prepare appropriately in a reasonable amount of time you&#8217;ve dedicated to preparation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then go do it.  Whatever it is.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I figure I&#8217;ll knock this out during the in-between of packing and travelling. We&#8217;re pretty much as good as we&#8217;re going to get; deal with what comes as it comes. This really kind of fits with my approach to a lot of different things; things happen, you deal, and move forward as best you can. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-national-journal-writers-month"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4361","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4361"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4361\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}