{"id":4864,"date":"2025-01-18T10:25:21","date_gmt":"2025-01-18T15:25:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/?p=4864"},"modified":"2025-01-18T10:25:21","modified_gmt":"2025-01-18T15:25:21","slug":"saturday-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/control-h.org\/index.php\/2025\/01\/18\/saturday-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Saturday"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I feel like I&#8217;ve been busy this week, but probably a good part of that has been spent with the little dog while my wife was away.  Stuff like that is pretty much exactly what I envisioned when I decided I wanted her\/we should have her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I accidentally stepped on her foot Thursday night&#8230;.and she took it as I wanted to play with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;d be an interesting case study to see the takes on the different care styles.  I leave her alone for the most part, but we run on my schedule.  It&#8217;s time for breakfast.  It&#8217;s time to go out.  It&#8217;s time for interaction\/play.  She can push things, but I tend to remain firm, which frustrates her sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was very upset that I wouldn&#8217;t give her peri-peri chicken.  Sorry, sweetie, but this is <em><strong>my<\/strong><\/em> dinner.  You had yours.  I will give you ear scratches after I&#8217;m finished, and have washed my hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It would have been fascinating to see how we&#8217;d have been as parents.  I think I&#8217;ve written her before why we&#8217;re not having kids.  Yes, there&#8217;s the flippant answer that we know which <a href=\"https:\/\/southpark.fandom.com\/wiki\/Butters_Stotch\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">South<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/southpark.fandom.com\/wiki\/Tweek_Tweak\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Part<\/a> characters we&#8217;d produce, but I can&#8217;t do the things <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There&#8217;s a lot of things I think it&#8217;s important for a dad to be able to do that I physically can&#8217;t;  it probably wouldn&#8217;t be fair to him, or me.  (Yes, I said, &#8220;him;&#8221;  in something like four generations, there&#8217;s about three girls out of probably 25 kids&#8230;..)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>I started writing this while watching overage of the LA fires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was listening to <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/grief-and-love-in-l-a\/id1444873564?i=1000683846285\">this<\/a>, and getting angrier by the minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do I feel bad that you and those you love lost things that are dear to you?  Of course.  But for the past decade-plus, I&#8217;ve heard your explain why people like me may not enter the ranks of your affluence.  I&#8217;m privileged simply because of my sorta-observable race, and gender.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The subject line in the draft was &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wiktionary.org\/wiki\/GFY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">GFY<\/a>,&#8221; which really summed out my feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That fed into Biden&#8217;s farewell address.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was having trouble finding words to describe everything that was wrong with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ted Oberg, with whom I worked when he was at WAVy\/FOX43 in Tidewater gave a glowing review.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was so adoring that I had to call him out on <s>Twi<\/s><strong>X. <\/strong>  The folks from The Fifth Column had pretty much the same reaction I did, though it was delayed by probably a day and a half.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/control-h.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4866\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Same sort of &#8220;GFY&#8221; reaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I understand that Ted was playing to his, and WRC&#8217;s audience in DC, but I really think Biden, when talking about a tech oligopoly, was expressing that threatens what he has spent his entire adult life fostering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You attend a private boarding school.  You marry someone of a similar standing.  You attend a high-priced private university (think Georgetown, GWU).  You produce two kids better than yourself.  You buy a property that&#8217;ll never decline in value, mortgage it forever, and instead of paying off the loan, you invest in <a href=\"https:\/\/money.usnews.com\/investing\/articles\/top-nancy-pelosi-stocks-to-buy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">whatever Rep. Pelosi is buying<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The tech bros didn&#8217;t do that.  <strong><em>Zuck is a f&#8217;n dropout<\/em><\/strong>.  Must stop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, GFY.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Monday should be interesting.  We&#8217;ll see how things go.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel like I&#8217;ve been busy this week, but probably a good part of that has been spent with the little dog while my wife was away. 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